You Didn't Tell Me
You told me
about the long shifts, the days and nights.
You told me
about the commanders and their lovely wives.
You told me
about chain of command, and how I would live by it.
But you
didn't tell me how proud of you I would be.
You told me
about the temporary duty and the many moves.
You told me
about overseas tours.
You told me
about payday, and how we would stretch the dollar.
You didn't
tell me about the honor I would feel.
You told me
about the wives' clubs and family support.
You told me
about Tricare.
You told me
about base housing, and how no two are alike.
You didn't
tell me that at the start of "God Bless the USA" I
would shed not one, but many tears.
You told me
about how Christmas would be in Germany.
You told me
about the commissary and PX.
You told me
we would need many sets of curtains.
You didn't
tell me how our children would look up to you, and want
to be like Dad.
You told me
about the hard times and how we would have many.
You told me
about the stress of being a military spouse.
You told me
sometimes I would be a single parent, and that in spirit you
would be with me.
But you
didn't tell me that when I saw your uniform in the laundry, I
would swell with respect.
You didn't
tell me how much of a part the military would play in our
lives and how I would never want it any other way!